Our Father

Matthew 6 : 7 - 15

....your Father knows what you need before you ask him...

"Our Father", our "Father in heaven" is such a wonderful way to address God that I have not given it second thought. But it is a really amazing way we are asked to address him. It presumes a relationship - a close family one - where we are the children, sons and daughters of our Father. And yet, it is also a difficult one for many people. Some have never known a human father or other caring parental role model. Or the ones they have known have been abusive in some way, not encouraging love and trust.

While I was growing up, I was hesitant to ask my father for things. Not that he was an abusive or angry person but he was just kind of distant. My brother and I would sometimes write a note and leave it at his bedside table. That was in the younger days - it was less 'formal' later on. But for me at least, there was always the need to think hard and prepare what to say, before I asked.

I am glad that Jesus himself reminds me that I need not be hesitant in this new family relationship. My Father already knows what I need - but at the same time is always ready to hear me out. That's part of the relationship. Especially in the important aspects of my life - my physical needs, my hurts and my own hurtfulness, and my desire (at least what I know of it) for his kingdom and will. My loving Father....whom I have sometimes felt a distance from.....when my asking words and my heart do not match. In his lovingkindness, he is drawing me closer to his heart's desire that I commune with him, and feel safe in his presence to 'ask' whatever I need - without fear of rejection.

Our Father.......welcomes each of us into his heart, that we may live as true sons and daughters.